love equals opain

 

LOVE EQUALS  PAIN

 I’m sure everybody in the world has defined what love is but I guess certain concepts means different meaning for different people.

Sisters, mothers and friends are being physically, psychologically and emotionally abuse by men who claims to love them. Somehow this behavior is connected to some religions because it is said that you need to be patient towards a man and in time he will change well what if he doesn’t?

 So since you love him and devoted to him, as a women mother and wife is that the kind of life you really want to live, is  that the kind of environment you want to raise your children is that the father of your kids that you always wanted. When and where will you draw the line? And say this is not what you sign up for when he finally takes your eye out or the front row of your teeth or worse kill the whole family a woman is killed every 6 hours by a partner.

People stay in this kind of relationships for different reason, “he is the father of my son”, we have come too far to let go now and some for nothing and you what is your excuse?

 Let’s join hands, for every girl and stranger being beaten up in the streets for every neighbor that screams help every night and for every woman who cries more than she ever laughed

LET IT GO!!!!

You do not have to tell me your problems but tell someone, communication is the key to every success of a relationship voice out, breath and take the next deep step to freedom and free yourself from the unhealthy relationship you are in.

By Anita Mullan

Friday October 13 2006

NEARLY 20pc of Irish women have been abused by a partner or previous partner, new statistics from Women's Aid reveal.

Last year, the Women's Aid helpline answered almost 13,000 calls, one in three of these related to physical violence and 13pc to sexual abuse.

The beautifull you



Wearing make-up

 Constantly can be

Dangerous for your health

Neither the less everyone wants to look good and feeling special sure everyone around you always told you that you were special, and I’m not here to tell you any different and not saying wearing makeup is wrong but that it is not good for your health.



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Regardless I think it’s not okay to get used to or get comfortable and using it or to get too comfortable with needing makeup You kind of lose yourself, forget what you really look like and you don’t think you’re pretty any more without it.

young girls appliying makeup

Everyone knows it deep down in their spines that I’m beautiful and somehow everyone around you must have told you that you are special and I’m not here to change that or think otherwise just here to inform you about the dangers of wearing too much or makeup in your face as it is not good for your health.

It has been discovered that the chemicals that we use on our skin penetrates and build up on our skin.

DANGERS OF WEARING MAKEUP

girls puting the make up on

Liver disease ingested products pass to our lungs and causses harm, Breast Cancer The contents of deodorants have been found to aggravate and to increase the chances of cancer. Allergies Everyone’s skins react differently to different chemical substances there for finds skin been itch or with rash and Streptococcus.

Did you know, is what is killing your skin cells, causing you to age prematurely, giving you spots, helping to cause skin irritations, eye problems,, cracked lips, hair loss, hair falling out……Well wearing so much face powders causes the skin to age irritated, blocked and inflamed skinReviewed by Jonathan L Gelfand, MD on March 05, 2010

NEW BEGGININGS

RESTORE YOUR 

 SENCE OF IDENTITY

The world has gone under a stray and been hit by an atomic bomb, I am not talking about HIV/AIDS or any dreadful disease but the fact that people have become copy cats of the likes of li Wayne, Beyoncé, Nicky minaj etc. do not get me wrong I am not against the idea of having a role model but if having a role model means been a photo copy of that person than don’t have a role model.



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The media has a strong influence on people and society. every  messages the media says  is intended to influence, educate or perceive us in a way, for example the media shows off  drop dead gorgeous, slender and sexy models which tells us ‘in order to look cool you  need to drive this and wear that, as a young and beautiful girl you need to  do this and use that’. Million campaigns are being held in order for people to boost their self-esteem (dove campaign) but really are they making any difference now why the only time a person can change is if and when they decide to.



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The truth is we are all unique and beautiful no wonder we all have different finger prints we are different, the sooner you except that you are the best you can ever be and  can never look like anybody else the sooner you exept that the better you will learn to love, appreciate and believe in yourself as to you can have what you want and deserve,  Be yourself, be unique and special.

As a human being you are beautiful and special you do not need to drive that, work there and dress like that you just need to believe in yourself and

 with your heart full of grace

 you will do and feel great!!!!