love equals opain

 

LOVE EQUALS  PAIN

 I’m sure everybody in the world has defined what love is but I guess certain concepts means different meaning for different people.

Sisters, mothers and friends are being physically, psychologically and emotionally abuse by men who claims to love them. Somehow this behavior is connected to some religions because it is said that you need to be patient towards a man and in time he will change well what if he doesn’t?

 So since you love him and devoted to him, as a women mother and wife is that the kind of life you really want to live, is  that the kind of environment you want to raise your children is that the father of your kids that you always wanted. When and where will you draw the line? And say this is not what you sign up for when he finally takes your eye out or the front row of your teeth or worse kill the whole family a woman is killed every 6 hours by a partner.

People stay in this kind of relationships for different reason, “he is the father of my son”, we have come too far to let go now and some for nothing and you what is your excuse?

 Let’s join hands, for every girl and stranger being beaten up in the streets for every neighbor that screams help every night and for every woman who cries more than she ever laughed

LET IT GO!!!!

You do not have to tell me your problems but tell someone, communication is the key to every success of a relationship voice out, breath and take the next deep step to freedom and free yourself from the unhealthy relationship you are in.

By Anita Mullan

Friday October 13 2006

NEARLY 20pc of Irish women have been abused by a partner or previous partner, new statistics from Women's Aid reveal.

Last year, the Women's Aid helpline answered almost 13,000 calls, one in three of these related to physical violence and 13pc to sexual abuse.